Krishna speaks18.43

शौर्यं तेजो धृतिर्दाक्ष्यं युद्धे चाप्यपलायनम्।दानमीश्वरभावश्च क्षात्रं कर्म स्वभावजम्॥

śauryaṃ tejo dhṛtir dākṣyaṃ yuddhe cāpy apalāyanamdānam īśvara-bhāvaś ca kṣātraṃ karma svabhāva-jam

Word by word
śauryam: valortejaḥ: strengthdhṛtiḥ: fortitudedākṣyam yuddhe: skill in weaponryca: andapi: alsoapalāyanam: not fleeingdānam: large-heartednessīśvara: leadershipbhāvaḥ: qualitiesca: andkṣātram: of the warrior and administrative classkarma: worksvabhāva-jam: born of one’s intrinsic qualities

The verse says

Courage, force, firmness, skill, not running away in a fight, generosity, and the capacity to lead: this is the work of the ruling kind, and it comes out of their nature.

In plain words

The second group, and two items sit oddly with the rest.

Courage, force, firmness, skill, standing your ground. Those are what you expect.

Then dāna - giving - and the bearing of someone who can take charge. Generosity is listed as a warrior quality, right next to not fleeing, which tells you what kind of power is meant.

Where you've felt this · in sport

The captain of a local team is not the best player and everybody knows it. What she does is take the blame in public when a decision of hers goes wrong, and name whoever actually did the work when something goes right. The team has had better players and has never played better than it does for her.

Going deeper

Generosity appearing in a list of martial qualities is the detail that defines what kind of power is being described.

Courage and skill on their own describe a dangerous person. Add open-handedness and the capacity to carry responsibility, and you get something different: strength that is in the service of people rather than pointed at them.

The order matters too. Not fleeing comes before generosity, which means the giving described is not the comfortable kind. It is what someone does who has already shown they will stand in front of something.

And the usable version has nothing to do with fighting. Wherever you have some power, in a family or a team or an office, the question this list puts is simple. Does the strength you have cost you anything, or does it only ever cost other people?