Gita Explained
कृष्ण कहते हैं6.42

अथवा योगिनामेव कुले भवति धीमताम्।एतद्धि दुर्लभतरं लोके जन्म यदीदृशम्॥

atha vā yoginām eva kule bhavati dhīmatāmetad dhi durlabhataraṃ loke janma yad īdṛśam

शब्दार्थ
atha vāelseyogināmof those endowed with divine wisdomevacertainlykulein the familybhavatitake birthdhī-matāmof the wiseetatthishicertainlydurlabha-taramvery rarelokein this worldjanmabirthyatwhichīdṛśamlike this

व्याख्या अभी अंग्रेज़ी में उपलब्ध है। हिन्दी व्याख्या एक-एक अध्याय करके जोड़ी जा रही है।

श्लोक कहता है

Or else he is born in a family of practitioners who have understanding. Such a birth as that is harder to come by in this world.

सरल शब्दों में

A second possibility, and it is ranked above the first.

Not the prosperous house. The house where people are already doing this.

Durlabhataram — harder to get. Rarer than money.

आपने इसे कहाँ महसूस किया है

Some people grow up in a house where music is simply what happens after dinner. They do not remember learning any of it. They also cannot quite believe, later, what a head start it was.

और गहराई में

The ranking corrects the verse before it, and quickly.

A prosperous, decent household is the first option. A household of people who already practise is the second, and it is called rarer and by implication better. Money buys room; it does not buy company.

That is a claim about how this sort of thing is actually transmitted, and it matches 4.34, where the instruction was to go and find a person rather than read further.

Dhīmatām — of those who have understanding. Not of the devout or the observant. Understanding is what is being inherited.

And for a reader without such a household there is something useful in it rather than something discouraging. If proximity is what does the work, proximity can be sought. It is one of the few things in this chapter you can arrange this month.